Wednesday, October 7, 2009

At home with three boys...

Life is good!

Mitch and Harry have a mild cold, but are otherwise well and are so kind and gentle with their little brother. Mitch keeps asking to kiss Jackson's hands - and give him "very gentle cuddles Mum". He is needing a bit more Mummy time so I have started asking him to bring a book into the bedroom and snuggle up next to me whilst I feed Jackson. That way I can read his book and talk with him, whilst he who must be obeyed has a feed. Mitch has been having angry outbursts about minor issues - I think partly because he is tired (coughing a lot at night), but also because everything has changed in his little world. I certainly won't tolerate bad behaviour, but I understand it. So we are going back to basics with the visual schedule, early bed times and lots of reinforcement of good behaviour. He is still my sweet Mickle Pickle - and I have to stop myself from laughing as he stomps off to his room and slams the door! So reminiscent of my own childhood behaviour, when I would go and throw myself on the bed after arguing with Mum and Dad. The only thing was that being not the most coordinated of people I would often roll off the bed and hit the floor (grin).

Harry has coped with this huge change a lot better than I thought he would - he is actually coping better than Mitch. He is extremely protective of Jackson and runs to tell me each time he hears Jackson cry. He is also extremely understanding of the time I need to spend with Jackson. This surprised me because he has always been extremely dependent on me - but it seems my Harry Koala is growing up! He is happiest when he is helping and loves to help me with Jackson. And sweetest of all he gave Jackson his favourite little toy puppy - but Jackson "asked" him to take care of it for him until he was a bit bigger. He still has his upsets - but no where near the meltdowns we experienced 6 months ago. With a few calm words he seems to be able to settle himself down and tell me what is wrong. This morning for example he ran sobbing into our room - it turned out that Daddy had told him he couldn't wear a certain t-shirt because I had laid it out for Mitch (the night before). There was much male angst in the Reid household for a few minutes until I realised that Harrison remembered I had told him that he was going to wear two t-shirts (one long sleeved and one short sleeved) and he thought he was supposed to wear Mitch's one! A moment later he was happily getting dressed and headed off to child care.

I am so proud of my older boys and their loving attitude to the little interloper in their midst :-) I am sure the three boys will be best of friends as they grow up.

Best news of all is that last night Jackson slept for long periods and I managed to get some sleep - the world sure is a brighter place when you feel rested :-)

Love to all,
Lisa xx

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ohhhh, how lovely that sounds, Harry being the ..big brother protector of his baby brother Jackson..Im sure loveable Mitch will settle down very soon with the big change in his world..The cold's would make him feel , vunerable too..Your doing a great job...We sure hope to come & see you all very soon, so I can have big..Cuddles with the Boy's, Oh.!!! & you guys too...Grin...Love Auntie ( M ) xxxxx....

JoanneK said...

What a lovely post to read!!!!

Nan & Grandpa said...

This is a blessing in disguise that both Harry and Mitchell have enbraced their brother Jackson we are blessed that they have a mother and dad that really loves them all knowing all the challenges that are ahead won't be easy yet we know that both of you will love and nuture all these challenges and in return love will be given back to you both from the boys in so many ways, Love Nana & Grandpa

Lisa - Mum to Mitch and Harry said...

Thank you Auntie Mary - I know Mitch & Harry are looking forward to spending some time with you and they will be so proud to show off their baby brother.
xx

Lisa - Mum to Mitch and Harry said...

Thanks Joanne :-)

Lisa - Mum to Mitch and Harry said...

Thank you Nana & Grandpa - counting down the days until you are here with us :-)